Who said it? you know why it is presumed dead??! well it is because we make it so. The days of ladies and gentlemen are gone... well.... not exactly! if it is gone then why do we still use it in our opening speeches? we should just call everyone bitches and assholes.... "good morning bitches and pricks... let us rejoice in this fucked up morning..."
But it is not... why? because we still have that believe and we want to believe that it is still there. Women still talks about it. I want a guy that is a gentlemen and treat me like a lady instead of just getting into my pants and stuffs. Well It is still there but how come there isnt any true out and out gentlemen anymore? why? Coz it is misused and misunderstood! I got this line from a old movie... remember blast from the past? the one starring Brendan Fraser and Alicia Silverstone. There is this line where they say... "I mean I thought a "gentleman" was somebody that owned horses. But it turns out, his short and simple definition of a lady or a gentleman is, someone who always tries to make sure the people around him or her are as comfortable as possible." So it is there... we still have it. There are still people who does it! Well, my interpretation of a gentlemen and a lady is a person that gives respect to anyone that is around them.
Well chilvary and gentlemen-ism is hidden because like said its misused! When ever a guy turns on his gentlemen-ism girls will think that this guy have something up his sleeve. There isnt any trust anymore. This is due to some assholes and pricks that use this to lure girls into their trap! So this slowly makes good guys look mischevious or suspicious! I am just so annoyed! On the other hand, when it comes to some girls, they tend to take advantage of the nice guys... using his niceness to fill up their void? hmmm...
But it is not... why? because we still have that believe and we want to believe that it is still there. Women still talks about it. I want a guy that is a gentlemen and treat me like a lady instead of just getting into my pants and stuffs. Well It is still there but how come there isnt any true out and out gentlemen anymore? why? Coz it is misused and misunderstood! I got this line from a old movie... remember blast from the past? the one starring Brendan Fraser and Alicia Silverstone. There is this line where they say... "I mean I thought a "gentleman" was somebody that owned horses. But it turns out, his short and simple definition of a lady or a gentleman is, someone who always tries to make sure the people around him or her are as comfortable as possible." So it is there... we still have it. There are still people who does it! Well, my interpretation of a gentlemen and a lady is a person that gives respect to anyone that is around them.
Well chilvary and gentlemen-ism is hidden because like said its misused! When ever a guy turns on his gentlemen-ism girls will think that this guy have something up his sleeve. There isnt any trust anymore. This is due to some assholes and pricks that use this to lure girls into their trap! So this slowly makes good guys look mischevious or suspicious! I am just so annoyed! On the other hand, when it comes to some girls, they tend to take advantage of the nice guys... using his niceness to fill up their void? hmmm...
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